Bustle Magazine: Dr. Cali Estes Discusses Signs You May Be Emotionally Unavailable



“Childhood may affect one’s emotional availability as an adult because there could have been trauma or an attachment disorder towards one or both parents,” Dr. Cali Estes founder of TheAddictionsCoach.com tells Bustle & because of that, they may have trouble connecting with a significant other now…

So, what are some signs you may not be emotionally available?… Click below the excerpt for full article!

7 Signs You May Be Emotionally Unavailable


Love requires you to connect with others on a deeper level. It involves things like allowing yourself to be vulnerable so you can form an intimate bond with your partner. But that isn’t always easy. According to experts, some people may not be wired for love and there are a few explanations as to why.

Being wired for love basically means you have a mindset that’s geared towards having a healthy and lasting relationship. “You innately seek connection in every form and will learn to develop a closeness by sharing and embracing the interests and feelings of your significant other,” Margaux Cassuto, relationship expert and matchmaker, tells Bustle. In other words, you are emotionally available.