YES YES YES you CAN get sober without using a guideline that someone else created. Each person is unique and what worked for your relative, friend or other person may not work for you. Cali Estes, The Addictions Coach can help you learn how to live a productive, meaningful life without using AA/NA and the 12 steps.
It is possible and yes you can do it. It has a lot to do with your perception of the situation, and not the situation itself. Call Cali Estes, The Addictions Coach at 786-709-0479